Do our panties make a difference to the mindset?

Time to tidy up the lingerie draw? I did mine the other day, the old, worn, black & black undies are now gone in the bin. Time for a shopping trip to get new boy short panties with lace, and BRIGHT colours.



Like the air we breathe and the water we drink, underwear is a part of life so ubiquitous that it often goes unnoticed. Don’t let another year pass being unsexy and wearing “Bridget Jones panties” every day— especially considering 99 percent of you are wearing them right now. And if not, good on you!

Colours influence our day from when we start getting dressed from our underwear to what we see when we look in the mirror. Have you discovered that when you are feeling down and tired you are drawn to wear the dark colours and that outfit we don’t like?  When a woman has her periods and feeling blue why do we always wear the frumpy outfit that makes us feel 10 times worst. This is when we add COLOUR to what we are wearing and even down to the underwear. What type of day do you want? Wear the colour to inspire you!

RED. Physical
Positive: Physical courage, strength, warmth, energy, basic survival, ‘fight or flight’, stimulation, masculinity, excitement.
Negative: Defiance, aggression, visual impact, strain.

BLUE. Intellectual.
Positive: Intelligence, communication, trust, efficiency, serenity, duty, logic, coolness, reflection, calm.
Negative: Coldness, aloofness, lack of emotion, unfriendliness.

YELLOW. Emotional
Positive: Optimism, confidence, self-esteem, extraversion, emotional strength, friendliness, creativity.
Negative: Irrationality, fear, emotional fragility, depression, anxiety, suicide.

GREEN. Balance
Positive: Harmony, balance, refreshment, universal love, rest, restoration, reassurance, environmental awareness, equilibrium, peace.
Negative: Boredom, stagnation, blandness, enervation.

VIOLET. Spiritual
Positive: Spiritual awareness, containment, vision, luxury, authenticity, truth, quality.
Negative: Introversion, decadence, suppression, inferiority.

Positive: Physical comfort, food, warmth, security, sensuality, passion, abundance, fun.
Negative: Deprivation, frustration, frivolity, immaturity.

Positive: Physical tranquillity, nurture, warmth, femininity, love, sexuality, survival of the species.
Negative: Inhibition, emotional claustrophobia, emasculation, physical weakness.

Positive: Sophistication, glamour, security, emotional safety, efficiency, substance.
Negative: Oppression, coldness, menace, heaviness.

Let’s talk about the underwear! I can see you cringing as you read this. NO one sees my underwear so why worry about it! It is not WHO sees your underwear it is HOW it makes you feel when you wear that nice matching underwear when you are feeling so BLUE!

Panties come in all shapes and styles: G- strings, boy pants, high cut thigh, frilly, lace, lace trim, high wasted cheeky, hipsters, bikini and many more.

Let’s imagine you having date No 1, 2 or 3 with that hot man, and you are hoping TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT, tell me what underwear will you wear?

Come on be honest with me, you would wear the matching bra and panties or go out and buy new ones for the date.

We all know of the movie “Bridget Jones” and how she has the beige big girl panties on. Well that is OK they don’t have to be beige what about RED or YELLOW or PINK.

Ladies I feel it is time to start wearing sexy underwear every day.

Here is the challenge for the next 21 days every day wear that sexy under wear and also throw out that old and ugly robe, buy a sexy one in your favourite colour.

What style of Panties do you like?

Thongs: Flaunt revealing coverage in back and body-hugging fabrics for a smooth, line-free look that works great under form-fitting clothes.

Bikini: Narrow sides and a hip-level waistband give this panty a classic, universally flattering shape that’s essential for every wardrobe.

Hipster: An everyday favourite, this low-rise panty features wider sides for minimal to moderate coverage.

Brief: The classic comfort panty, briefs have a higher rise and provide excellent seat coverage.

Boy short: A cheeky take on fitted boxer shorts, these panties deliver a body-hugging fit with a longer leg for extra coverage under skirts and dresses.

High cut: This high-cut panty gives legs a long, lean look while also offering moderate to full coverage in back.

What is your favourite pantie to wear? Leave a comment below …….

Till next blog.

Have a FABULOUS Day!

Debbie Majella 


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